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Srila Prabhupada

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All glories to
Srila Prabhupada!

Thank You,
Danavir Maharaja

From Joshua Hawley

Posted July 14, 2005

Thank you finally—an ISKCON sannyasi for finally taking a clear stance in support of your spiritual master who is the clear founder and Acharya of ISKCON and no on else.

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Appreciation for
'Chaste Harlots'

From Jagadananda dasa

Posted July 8, 2005

Dear Dipika Org.

Please accept my respectful obeisances. All glories to Srila Prabhupada.

I was favorably impressed by H H Danavir Gosvami's article "Chaste Harlots" and I would like to express to him my appreciation for the way Maharaja supported his article strictly on the basis of guru, sastra, and sadhu.

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Chaste Harlots

By Danavir Goswami

Posted July 7, 2005

Considering the term "gay monogamy," we will first of all try to clarify the imports of both words individually and then discuss them combined.

The word "gay" is primarily defined as: 1) someone who practices homosexuality; or 2) someone having a sexual attraction to persons of the same sex.

Concerning the second definition, one may, in other words, be attracted in that way but may not indulge in homosexual activity of a physical nature

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It Is Not Logical
to Discriminate

Lilesvara Dasa answers
Tapati Devi Dasi

Posted May 15, 2005

Dear Tapati Devi Dasi,

Please accept my obeisances. All glories to Srila Prabhupada.

I recently read your letter regarding your sexual preference. I know that you had requested Hrdayananda Maharaja to comment about gay monogamy, but I felt the need to also reply you. I hope you don't mind.

First of all, I am truly sorry that one of your Godsisters stopped writing to you.

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The Ideal Is the Real

By Bhakta Pat

Posted May 12, 2005

The contention of HH Hridayananda Goswami Maharaja is that homosexual devotees be allowed to stay together with a partner of their choice, as a heterosexual couple would stay together in the grhasta asrama. His statement in a letter to Chakra and Dipika is this: "I am not convinced that marriage is the best means in all cases, but some serious, formal and public recognition and appreciation of gay monogamy is, in my view, in the best interest of ISKCON and its members."

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They Have Something of Value to Offer

From Tapati Devi Dasi

Posted May 3, 2005

I very much appreciate His Holiness Hrdayananda Maharaja's comments about gay monogamy. I would like to comment from my own experience.

I had the good fortune to be initiated by Srila Prabhupada in 1977. I practiced Krsna Consciousness for over 15 years. I married in the movement, had two children, and finally left my abusive husband. I went to college so I could support my children with no help from their father.

It was there I realized in stages that I was not solely heterosexual.

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Gay Monogamy:
The End is Near

By Umapati Swami

Posted Apr. 30, 2005

Please, no more replies to Hrdayananda Maharaja's letter about gay monogamy. I've had my fill, and I have to say that I am amazed at the hysteria this little letter has generated. True, there have been thoughtful replies on both sides, but I can't stomach any more of these long-winded, moralizing, sermonizing, holier-than-thou tirades.

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Homosexuality: Pandora’s Box

By Yugal Kishor dasa

Posted Mar. 31, 2005

It has been a while now that in our Krishna Consciousness Movement several individuals have been grappling with the issue of homosexuality. Some have posed the idea that homosexuality is as normal as heterosexuality and thus attempt to accommodate or justify homosexuality within the ranks of ISKCON asramas (whether grhastha asrama or brahmacarya, and perhaps even sannyasa).

Others have expressed their opposing convictions on the matter with full force.

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We Have to Start Somewhere

From a private e-mail

Posted Mar. 31, 2005

Also read Hridayananda Maharaj's "Gay Monogamy" letter, and I applaud you for posting it. Of course it may ruffle some feathers, but I believe the principle is correct…. Wherever we are, we have to start somewhere.

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Misconceptions
of Marriage

By Sita-pati das

Posted Mar. 31, 2005

Marriage does not condone or approve of sexual activity. It is the product of a civilization that recognizes that sexual activity increases material identification, and actively seeks to counteract this with regulative legislation.

So where does this philosophical deviation that marriage condones a lifestyle based around sex life come from?

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What is the Purpose
of ISKCON?

By David Greensberg

Posted Mar. 31, 2005

Is the purpose of ISKCON to be like the Christian right in America? Is ISKCON supposed to be the moral watchdog of society? Is ISKCON supposed to be the gateway to Vraja or the demagogic enforcer of morality?

If ISKCON takes the stand of being the morality police, then this will automatically curtail its effectiveness in being the gateway to Vraja. This is an axiomatic truth. What would happen is that spirituality would be replaced by moral ideology. Instead of ISKCON being about the distribution of kirtan and prasadam and the Bhagavata, its purpose would be to tell people what is wrong with their lives. It would change from being a purveyor of a positive into being a purveyor of a negative. Instead of embracing all people and sharing the gift of Sri Sri Radha Govinda, it would be about finding faults with people.

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Homosexuality: A
Curse or a Boon?

By Bhaktavatsala dasa (HDG)

Posted Mar. 31, 2005

Why is everyone insisting on missing the point? The idea is that we are all fallen and conditioned souls. We have karma that is being played out in this lifetime from many lifetimes ago, still. What you do with your nature and your karma while trying to follow the principles is a result of your accepting Krishna as The Supreme Personality of Godhead and the wisdom and courage your guru gives you.

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On the Road Again
Sorry for the delay

I've got a lot more stuff to post. I'll be back soon.

In the meantime…

There are a lot of letters coming about Gay Monogamy, and I haven't had time to answer the ones that have problems, so I'd like to put down a few ground rules for the discussion.

The question is, Should we encourage homosexuals to renounce promiscuity and take up monogamy, not as a facility for illicit sex but as a step toward eventual renouncement, just as we encourage heterosexual people to take up monogamy for the same reason?

Everyone agrees that homosexual sex is illicit sex, so there is no need to write articles trying to prove that point. Nor is there any need to write articles describing the sexual things that homosexuals do or to say that homosexuals are incapable of monogamy unless you know every homosexual in the world.

Srila Prabhupada disapproved of same-sex marriage, but are there other ways to encourage same-sex monogamy without going against the letter or the spirit of his instructions?

See you soon.


You're Looking
for an Easy Fix

From Joshua Hawley

Posted Dec. 21, 2004

Thanks and appreciation from dipika.org to our sponsor and host,

It's not really a solution to give all people who say they are gay some formal recognized status. We're not getting at the core of the issue by giving someone a status. Rather, it seems we are justifying that behavior.

According to all scriptural evidence, homosexuality is condemned as being a sinful activity. There is no argument to defy that point. If you are really serious about giving gays a solution in spiritual life, then why not take a look at the factors that lead to homosexuality? There are numerous studies being conducted into just that very matter.

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Everybody Should Go
Back to Godhead

From Kaveri devi dasi

Posted Dec. 21, 2004

Hare Krsna. Please accept my most humble obeisances. All glories to Srila Prabhupada!

I'm 23 years old, and homosexuality and promiscuity were not considered amazing in my youth. So after reading the articles posted by Hridayananda das Goswami and Umapati Swami, I can't understand what the problem is.

We are part of an already degraded society. We shouldn't forget this and act as if this has nothing to do with us. As devotees we don't want to water down the standards or principles, because we understand that the result won't be the same. But what's the object of all the rules and regulations we have? What's the purpose of ISKCON?

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I Am Troubled by This

From Sankarshan Das Adhikari

Posted Dec. 21, 2004

Please accept my humble obeisances. All glories to His Divine Grace Srila Prabhupada.

I am troubled by this part of the posting:

"I am not convinced that marriage is the best means in all cases,"

This is a roundabout way of saying marriage is or may be the best means in some cases. This opens the door to legitimizing homosexual marriage, which Srila Prabhupada strongly opposes.

Your humble servant,
Sankarshan Das Adhikari

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You Must Have Missed This

From Ronin

Posted Dec. 21, 2004

"I am not convinced that marriage is the best means in all cases, but some serious, formal and public recognition and appreciation of gay monogamy is, in my view, in the best interest of ISKCON and its members." -HDG

"...appreciation of gay monogamy..."      You must have missed this. A retraction would be honorable.

ronin

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Disgusted

From Jambavan Dasa

Posted Dec. 21, 2004

Please accept my humble obeisances All glories to Srila Prabhupada

I was disgusted to recently read your posting of Hrdayananda Maharaja's letter entitled "Gay Monogamy." I thought you were at least the last website that would print this kind of trash. I guess I was wrong.

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'Gay Monogamy':
Why I Posted It

By Umapati Swami

Posted Dec. 20, 2004

I have received some surprised responses to Hrdayananda Maharaja's article "Gay Monogamy." People are asking why dipika.org would print an article condoning homosexual behavior.

But the article does not condone homosexual behavior or suggest that we initiate anyone who is breaking the regulative principles. Nor does the article sanction any kind of marriage ceremony for same-sex unions.

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Gay Monogamy

From Hridayananda dasa Goswami (GBC)

Posted Dec. 19, 2004

I agree with Amara that a truly spiritual society must constantly seek a balance between the strict codes of varashrama, and the practical spiritual needs of sincere devotees. There can be no doubt that a significant number of souls whose external sexual orientation is homosexual sincerely strive to be Krishna conscious. It is entirely natural and predictable that a majority of these devotees, as with most hetereosexual devotees, will not be suited for lifelong celibacy.

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